How to Cancel HER Premium 2026 — The LGBTQ+ Dating App's Subscription Guide

Updated March 2026 • 5 min read

HER is the most popular dating app specifically built for LGBTQ+ women, nonbinary, and queer people. The Premium tier costs $15-25/month and adds features like seeing who liked you, advanced filters, and unlimited swipes. But the free tier already handles the basics of matching and messaging.

HER Pricing

HER Premium (1 month): $14.99/month
HER Premium (6 months): $9.99/month ($59.94 total)
HER Premium (12 months): $7.50/month ($89.99 total)
HER Premium+ (1 month): $24.99/month
HER Premium+ (12 months): $14.99/month ($179.88 total)

Premium+ adds incognito mode, read receipts, and profile boosts. But the basic Premium already includes see-who-liked-you and advanced filters. For most users, neither tier is essential.

How to Cancel HER Premium

Cancel on iPhone

Open Settings → tap your Apple ID
Tap Subscriptions
Find HER → Cancel Subscription

Cancel on Android

Open Google Play Store
Profile → Payments & subscriptions → Subscriptions
Find HER → Cancel subscription

Cancel via HER App

Open HER → tap Profile → Settings
Tap Manage Subscription
This redirects you to your app store subscription settings

🚨 App store billing only: HER processes all payments through Apple or Google. You cannot cancel through HER's website or by emailing them. You must go through your phone's subscription settings.

Delete Your HER Account

Open HER → Profile → Settings
Scroll to bottom → Delete Account
Confirm deletion

HER also functions as a social/community platform beyond just dating. If you want to keep your account for the community feed and events but stop paying, just cancel the subscription — you'll revert to the free tier.

Why HER Premium Might Not Be Worth It

Free matching and messaging: The core dating experience works without Premium
Smaller user base in many areas: As a niche app, some cities have very limited profiles regardless of tier
Community features are free: The social feed, groups, and events don't require Premium
"Who liked you" is the main draw: But in a smaller app, those people will appear in your stack eventually

💡 HER does good things: Unlike many dating apps, HER actively builds LGBTQ+ community spaces and events. The app has real value as a social platform even without the dating premium. Consider keeping the free account for community while canceling the subscription.

Free Alternatives

HER (free tier): Matching, messaging, and community features all work free
Bumble (free): Has LGBTQ+ friendly features, large user base
Hinge (free): Inclusive of all orientations, designed for relationships
Lex: Text-based queer personals app, completely free
Tinder (free): Large LGBTQ+ user base, basic matching is free

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Quick Cancel Guide: Her Dating

Direct cancel link + step-by-step instructions